Boundaries: Building Bridges, Not Walls

I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on boundaries – how we set them, how we struggle with them, and how they can either create distance or foster deeper respect and connection. One of my coaching clients recently shared how difficult she finds it to set boundaries. She identifies as a people pleaser, constantly navigating the delicate dance of saying ‘yes’ More →

Are You Successful… or Just Exhausted?

We’re told success looks like long hours, constant output, and unshakeable ambition. We’re praised for being busy, productive, and resilient – even when our bodies are screaming for rest. We’re celebrated for “pushing through” and “showing up”, even when something inside us quietly whispers, “Is this really what I worked so hard for?” As a coach and healer, I work More →

Diwali Without Fireworks: Honouring Tradition, Embracing Compassion

Diwali, known as the festival of lights, is a time for celebrating the triumph of good over evil, light over darkness. Yet, as the years go by, I see more and more fireworks displays becoming a core part of Diwali celebrations here in Nairobi and around the world. Traditionally, fireworks weren’t part of Diwali, and though I’ve spoken out against More →

The Hidden Perils of Noise: A Holistic Healer’s Tale

Today I want to share a personal tale that speaks to the often-overlooked detriments of noise, especially from the perspective of someone who thrives on peace and tranquillity. As a holistic healer, my world is built on the foundations of calmness, stillness, and the gentle hum of nature’s melody. Yet, my current living situation is anything but tranquil. Picture this: More →

Confronting Spiritual Bypassing: Integrating Spiritual Practice with Social Awareness

As a holistic healer, I advocate for integrating spiritual practices with everyday life, emphasizing authenticity in our spiritual journeys. A crucial aspect of this discussion is recognizing and addressing “spiritual bypassing” – the tendency to use spirituality to avoid confronting real-world issues and emotions. Recently, this issue came to light during my attendance at the “Future of Power for Enlightened More →

Navigating the Thin Line Between Self-Care and Selfishness

In the pursuit of personal growth and well-being, the concept of self-care has gained significant traction in recent times. It’s become a buzzword in today’s fast-paced world, often associated with practices like healing, meditation and exercise, as well as pamper days and time taken for individual hobbies and leisure pursuits. However, amidst this trend, a pertinent question seems to arise More →